Tag Archives: Mercy

Bisexuals, Females and Cybersex

For a number of years, I’ve hung out in an IRC channel, SexNet.org‘s #cyber-lovers. It was a small channel, populated by dedicated chatters who are easy-going, drama-free (for the most part), and of course, unrepentant perverts. Last week, the channel’s founder, Brooke, told me she was closing it down. It kind of sucks, but her […]

Make Spam Feed Your Sleaze

One great thing about spam these days is the randomly generated text in the subject lines and bodies. In a hack from the book Mind Performance Hacks, author Ron Hale-Evans suggests seeding your creativity with random words and images, or anything at all, to break your mind out of its rut. Spammers spin out interesting, […]

A Resolution for Evolution

It’s four whole days into the new year. For almost fifteen years I’ve celebrated the end and beginning of each with two resolutions: one resolving to better myself in some way, the other to learn or try something I’ve always wanted to before I die. But this past New Year’s Eve, I found myself wanting […]

Vacation on the Rocks, Part 1

I’ve been back from my vacation for a few days. When I try to think of the words to describe it, my mind doesn’t draw a blank, it is flooded with images and emotions. None of it was what I expected. When I first decided I needed some time away from my usual daily grind, […]

Older Women

I’m thirty years old. Chatting amiably with strangers on Second Life the other night, we started trading the basic asl stats. (Me: 30/F/CA) A twenty-two-year-old user chimed in with a comment about how he likes older women when I disclosed my age. *squish* I think it’s insulting to be called an older woman, except…I like […]

Image Post (Me)

I’ve been meaning to move all of my pictures over to my blog for some time, and include some descriptions. I really didn’t expect to be quite so lazy as I am tonight. Therefore, I’ll be posting them only when I remember to. (Read: when I’m not distracted by having, fantasizing about, or watching carnal […]

Cybersex Protocol from a Cyber Babe

Most people are probably familiar with the concept of cybersex*, but there’s more to it than some would expect. You can’t just log into a chat server and jump right into it, even if you see others sceneing. There are protocols for behavior in sex channels, as there are for almost any kind of social […]

My Bisexually Apperceived Bias

[edit: I should have titled this “My Apperceived Bisexuality Bias” instead. Too late now, I pinged everybody, but I just can’t stand leaving my mistakes uncorrected.] I had a peculiar encounter at the gym this afternoon. I was sitting in the steam room, eyes demurely downcast when a woman sat down across from me and […]