Weekly Obsession: Morbid Mandy vs Crazy Tentacle Monster

Okay, I found this blog post: Mandy Morbid: Mandy Vs. Crazy Tentacle Sex Monster. What’s not to love, right? So I click. No movie. But there’s a link to www.mandymorbid.com—which I’d normally avoid. I don’t like banner- and pop-up-filled sites, or even most pay sites. Even so, there might be a girl having sex with […]


CA’s Same-sex Marriage Ban goes POOF

I blogged about it on my bisexuality blog, but why not spread it even further? We’re now the second U.S. state to allow same-sex marriages! It’s exciting news for most of us. Even though I won’t be marrying anyone, man or woman, a heart-squeezing fist of happiness keeps pressing out random grins when I think […]


Sex Toys: The Curve

I am loving the look of the Curve right now. Aside from the sinuous shaft and perfectly shaped head, it has a finger-loop for a handle. I’ve never understood why manufacturers didn’t make ergonomic grips for dildos and vibes. This isn’t exactly what I had in mind, but it’s damn sight better than most. The […]


Masturbate for Peace

Not that we need a reason. Masturbate for Peace isn’t anything like the Masturbate-a-thon, but hey, you can sign a “petition” pledging your masturbation towards the world peace effort. Make it mean something, you know. While you’re there, you can pick up some tips on masturbating. (I already know how to do this, so I […]


SquarePeg Toys For Your Boys

Jet-black silicone urethral sounds (not audio—a medical instrument for probing, dilating, and stretching, the use of which can be a fetish in its own right), dildos, and various other accessories, from erotic (and usable!) sculptures to dick bits. You really have to see the dick bits, they’re hardcore, awesome pieces made from real hardware: screws, drill bits, bolts.


He Wears Panties

Another one for my men-in-panties fetish: He Wears Panties. This one isn’t a porn site, or even all that risque. In fact, the models (most of whom are women) have their breasts blocked out.  The latest post talks about bodystockings for men–something I hadn’t thought about previously.  Fodder for my imagination, with or without images.  […]


2008 Masturbate-a-thon

A fundraiser commited to advancing sex education and safety, the 2008 Live Masturbate-a-Thon was started by Good Vibrations (one of my favorite toy stores), one of the fun events to raise awareness during their National Masturbation Month—another reason to love May. Founded and directed by Dr. Carol Queen, the seventh annual Masturbate-a-thon will be held […]


KittenHate.com rocks my orgasms

You may or may not be familiar with my orgasm chart. The basic premise is to rate every orgasm of mine on a scale of one to ten. For that, I’ve been using Pasi Matilainen’s Simple Chart plugin. It’s an amazing adjunct to any WP blog, but it no longer works for me.