Back to the models. While we probably won’t get our own fashion show just by stopping into a store, these days we can get a virtual one. A friend of mine directed me to KnickerPicker to do a little shopping. She probably knew I’d be more enthralled with the models. It’s not really porn, but it might as well be. There’s something intrinsically rousing about women modeling lingerie for you. What I really like about KnickerPicker’s models is that they’re somewhat interactive. You can have them walk towards you, walk back, and turn around. Even better, these models all have different body types, and lack that professional smile. I’ve chosen the one below because she seems appealingly shy. More like a real person than a cookie-cutter mannequin.

And then there’s aussieBum. Not as interactive, but with a plethora of video clips and hot, hot, fucking hot babe shots, it’s hard to beat this site for sheer ocular overload. This one company is making huge changes in the nature of underwear advertising for men. Remember Mark Wahlberg in his tight little Calvin Kleins? Women went crazy over that. Men, not so much.

  There’s been little in the way of sexy ads for men, at least those that don’t feature women. Not too long ago, though, I passed by a shop that had an aussieBum display in the front window. I wasn’t the only one who stopped to stare, with a goofy, lusty grin plastered on my face. A number of other women did, too. Some with men—who hung back, clearly disassociating themselves with anything ball-hugging and panty-like. Take that cue, guys: women like these. They’re hot as hell.

The aussieBum video below showcases their new swim line, and they are not Speedos.  More to the point, this video is definitely geared to rev up the viewer’s sex drive.  And not the hetero male’s drive, either.

Have a gander, girls.

Another one for my men-in-panties fetish: He Wears Panties. This one isn’t a porn site, or even all that risque. In fact, the models (most of whom are women) have their breasts blocked out.  The latest post talks about bodystockings for men–something I hadn’t thought about previously.  Fodder for my imagination, with or without images.  (However, if one of you guys wears any, or knows of any sites…you know where to send that data.)

I really do adore this picture of pink panties around a guy’s ankles.  There’s something shy and endearing about the inward-turned toes. That initial hubba-hubba! outburst makes one feel almost crude.

Founded and directed by Dr. Carol Queen, the seventh annual Masturbate-a-thon will be held in San Francisco on Sunday, May 25th, 2008. That’s a long way for most of us. But! You can participate from home by downloading a pledge form and having your friends sign up. Masturbate a lot on May 25th, and collect your pledges. You can send the money in yourself, or direct people to the donate page.

Want to watch? Sign up to access the live masturbation event feed on-line. Totally free. If you feel guilty and pervy, donate.

Dr. Carol Queen and Dr. Robert Lawrence donate all proceeds to the non-profit Center For Sex & Culture.

I have no idea who the other people are. Mostly because they don’t want to be recognized. We really don’t want anyone to know we have virtual-cyber-3d-scripted-type sex, do we? We’ll call them Lessimus Maximus and uh, Boy Toy.

I can’t pretend that appearances mean nothing to me; they sure do. Even so, I’m more impressed—and aroused—by intelligent people. When I first visited Nicole’s blog, I thought, oh, another porn blog. There were sexy pictures of her all over the place, and large “Sign up!” graphics and advertisements in the posts and sidebars; you know, the usual. But she was cute, so I figured, what the heck, reading tripe won’t lower my IQ. I was extremely and pleasantly surprised to read her posts about confidence, BBWs, and women in general. Even the quality of her porn posts is high. Instead of captions under her steamy shower pics that said, Mmmm soapy!, there was actually substance! I’ll give you my favorite example of what I mean. In one of the posts she gives a rundown of the video clips she’s selling. Here’s what she wrote about one of them:

Strap On Love For Sissy Boys

This PVC fetish Schoolgirl Princess wants to “tap your ass”, sissy boy. If you have always dreamt of a BBW Princess dominating you and taking control of your weak, pathetic wussy ass, you have clearly found her. Gaze upon my huge cock and listen as I verbally humiliate you into submission. Fuck you, Loser Boy, you suck, I rule!

Not all of them are Domme clips (or so I assume, I read the captions, but didn’t view the videos), and that one’s my favorite because she’s wearing a harness and LARGE dildo. Plus she wears glasses, not in the vid I mentioned, but in others, and that’s another thing I find so sexy in women. Oh, and the vinyl…I adore women in vinyl. So if you’re into BBWs, or sexually confident women in general, check her out. What she has to say is worth reading, no matter what your fetish.

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So, anyway, here I am searching for these free images, and I come across this site: Atraw Ceramics. Sculptor John Warta creates ceramic dildos as pieces of art, and for use, too. I’m showing the double, but there are single dongs as well. They’re safe for use, nonporous, and have a dinnerware-safe glaze. (You know what they say, if you can eat off of it… or something like that, anyway.) You can even clean them in the dishwasher, in fact, I think they’d do better than most “dishwasher safe” toys; too often that icky white powder residue is left on plastics and even silicone. Again with the thumbnails, here’s the one that first drew my eye: the ceramic double dildo. The color’s nice for a tea pot, maybe, but I’d like a nice, shiny black one. Did I mention Warta creates custom pieces, too? And all of them are one-of-a-kind, handcrafted works of art for your pussy. Another me-present to think about.

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A few days ago I was browsing through some search results and came across a recent post from his blog. Elated, I surfed in only to find that someone named Sean Murphy was replaying Clayton’s greatest hits. Again, disappointment. But I read on anyway.

His hands gripped my cock expertly and stroked me effortlessly; I was soon convinced only another male really knows how to beat off a man.

There are many women who perform the task admirably. But Fred’s technique was like a fistful of love. I lost my composure; not just that night – but time after time after time.

The tutorial lasted for quite a while. I became his cocksucker and he taught me the erotica of his fist.

I’m still addicted, I still want more. But I’m glad he’s out there somewhere, still writing. What a man. What a gift. Even though Clayton Holiday is no longer posting on The Holiday Life, I have to recommend his work. It’s phenomenal. Read it yourself and spread the love.

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I’ve been meaning to set up a separate blog for just such issues for some time. Too many people think of bisexuality as something kinky or deviant. It’s not. But to get my point across, I need to be able to separate my libidinous subjects from my sexual politics. The more bisexuals that put themselves out into the blogosphere, the more chance we have of reaching those who don’t know much about bisexuality, or who may never have given common misconceptions a second thought. I want more people to see bisexuals as real people, not some ambiguous, faceless facet of homosexuality. When I was a teenager, I would have liked to have such a resource open to me. Struggling with your sexual identity can be very difficult, particularly if you don’t have a starting point.

Right now is probably a bad time to get started on a new project. I’m working on some stories for PixelPulse, and that comes before any posting to my blogs. (By the way, the latest issue is out. You can get it in-world on Second Life.) Work is crazy right now, too, for some reason, and that comes first, period. I gotta eat, ya know. So taking on a new blog might be some extra work, but I don’t care. It’s important to me and if I’m slower at posting both here and there, that’s okay. At least it’s out there. Most likely, I’ll rewrite and post some of my older posts to the bisexuality blog, to give them a home among non-adult content. Come the new year, however, I’ll be in full swing. I can’t wait. : )

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