Update: Betka’s sites are no longer live, and I have no idea when or if they’ll be back. As of now (April, 2008), both sites linked forward to regular porn sites.

Betka Schpitz is fucking hot. Her curvaceous, vinyl-clad image grabbed me the moment I laid eyes on her picture, and to tell the truth it’s still got its teeth in me. I happened upon her blog by chance, following a referring search engine link from one of my posts tagged bisexuality and saw her post entitled “Those Damn Slutty Bisexuals”. Besides being amazingly gorgeous and sexy, her posts show her to be intelligent and perceptive. In the bisexuality post I read she briefly related her own discovery of her sexuality and noted the animosity towards bisexuality among lesbians.

“Apparently bisexuals are viewed as being promiscuous and indecisive, while waiting to bait and switch the poor dykes cruising for ladies. (Hello paranoia.),” Betka wrote. Pbffft. “Bait and switch.” Poor babies, I love how somebody is always victimizing someone else. Particularly us deviant bisexuals. I’ve run into this attitude numerous times, which is more that a little silly coming from those who’ve had first hand experience with prejudice against those with a different sexual orientation. Of course, I am promiscuous. I don’t make any apologies for that. However, it’s my choice to do as I damn well please and it has very little to do with my bisexuality. I don’t seduce women looking for love into sleeping with me. I don’t make promises–unspoken or otherwise–to get other people in bed. In fact, I very clearly lay out what I’m all about without being domineeringly insulting, defensive, or offensive. (Admit it: that takes talent, baby.) I happen to like sex, and I think I’m just peachy keen the way I am.

Biases like this one don’t bother me much because I have very little to do with intolerant people. So we all win: they stay away from me, I stay away from them. The only time I get riled over it is when someone gets in my face about it. That rarely happens, and I can hold my own anyway.

I recommend giving Betka Schpitz’s erotic blog a read, even if you’re not the fetish type. Her posts are well worth reading, and they offer a glimpse into the life of a professional dominatrix and strong, confident woman. Check out her main site, too. It offers BDSM services, sexy galleries and videos (yup, porn!), and a members-only section.

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